Anal Sex Toys For Men And Women—Exploring New Ways To Achieve Sexual Intimacy
One of the most tried and true anal sex toys for men and women is the butt plug. It’s safe, pleasurable and offers you new ways to achieve orgasm with your partner (or on your own!) if you’re interested in anal play. Here are some tips about using butt plugs.
More or less, butt plugs are dildos with a difference: a flared end so they don’t disappear “up there.” How large should your anal sex toys for men and women be? That all depends on you. If you’re a novice, it’s best to start small, with a butt plug one or two inches long, say the length of a finger. This gives you the chance to get a feel for things and figure out if you like it before progressing to larger toys. Once your toy is inserted, you can leave it still, pull it up and down or circle it around—whatever works for you. The best way to find out is to experiment as part of your fun and fantasy .
Usually made of rubber or silicon, butt plugs are shaped like a cone or diamond, narrow at the tip for easier insertion, flaring in the middle for best contact and hold, then tapering down to a flared end that keeps it in place. The texture can be smooth or rippled. Some offer a slight bend to offer better access to the male prostate (“G-spot.”) Some are inflatable so you can adjust to fit, so to speak.
Ultimately, while things may feel tight when you start getting involved in anal play, the anus is quite adaptable.
Experienced anal players can handle up to nine or ten inches of toy with varying widths. The more you play, the bigger toys you’ll be able to fit once you’re using anal toys for men and women regularly.
Any successful playtime with
anal sex toys for men
and women will require you to use lube and keep hygiene in mind (wrap your toy in a condom; never move it from anus to vagina without replacing the condom or cleaning the toy.)
Vibrating butt plugs
Vibrating butt plugs (a.k.a. dildos) ramp up the intensity of anal play by providing vibration, variable speeds and pleasurable massage. They’re best known for their ability to intensely stimulate a man’s prostate and a woman’s G-spot through the wall that separates the anus and vagina. Many vibrating plugs have a slight bend to give best access to these areas. Some are smooth while others are textured. Some are waterproof; others offer a variety of speed settings to help you achieve maximum pleasure.
Butt plugs are
anal sex toys for men
and women that offer you enhanced intimacy through exploring this type of play. You and your partner can build trust through anal play because it requires communication and relaxation to achieve an orgasm you’ll always remember.